Our Last Day, Déjà

Incroyable. Five weeks here in Burgundy has flown by already. Tomorrow morning we leave our Maison des Chaumes to embark on the familiar trans-atlantic marathon in the direction of Victoria, Canada.

The past five weeks have been a far cry from a “vacation” in the traditional sense of the word. It is dawning on us that managing four vacation rentals and one wine cellar is a lot of work no matter which way you cut it.

For example, on vacation would you choose to spend your first two weeks camping day and night at the France Telecom office in Beaune trying to acquire functioning phone and Internet lines for four houses?  Then would you spend the next two weeks dealing with the Préfecture de Police trying to jump through the administrative hula hoops to comply with a new law regarding a “taxe de séjour” applied to French vacation rentals? 

Eh non.  And then there was the matter of La Clémentine.

Two and a half is not a very relaxing age. At times adorable, certes, but not very relaxing. Add toilet training to the mix and a lot of the time I felt like I was living with an abusive sociopath. 

Toilet training is a Big Deal for many two year olds and at times Clem would be driven into such a frenzy of frustration and rage that she would would literally be throwing everything she could get her hands on and foaming at the mouth.  Worse, she blamed it all on ME.  I was hit, scratched, spat at, shouted at, and defied on a regular basis while Franck was out and about getting shouted at and defied by France Telecom and the Préfectures.  

 The good news is that she has made some serious headway on the toilet training front and she has actually transformed into a French speaking bundle of cuddly joy this past week.  That is two year olds for you; the agony and the ecstasy.       

But in the midst of all this daily work and toilet training grind, there were many times where I was hit by a wave of joy and gratitude at having the chance to be able to come back here.  There were meals with our friends and family, endless summer evenings on our deck, playdates with French buddies, ice creams on Les Chaumes as the sun went down over the vineyards,  The Crèpe Express, and even the occasional market visit.   

I think one of the best things about this trip was seeing how we all settled back into our French life and that French part of ourselves almost immediately.  The girls had an amazing time reconnecting with all of the important French people in their lives and their love of  the perfect baguette, running between the rows of vineyards, a ripe Epoisses, and family get togethers.   They are as French as if they had never left.  It brought me to tears on numerous occassions to think how wonderful it is that they already so fully possess two languages and cultures.

So now we return to our other culture – the Canuck one.  

It is a bit daunting, knowing that this is going to be a wild and strange year.   Starting (keeping fingers crossed) the week or two after we get back we will be demolishing  and rebuilding on the lot we own in South Oak Bay right by the beach.  This means we will be gypsies with no fixed address until we can move into our new place.  

We have found a rental until early January, and then will be couch surfing at my parents and perhaps other places until it is completed (we’re aiming for 9 months – just like a baby).  Building a house is something I have always wanted to try but both the financial exposure and risks for delays, mistakes, and conflicts makes it a terrifying  ride.  Right now I feel as though I have been pulled to the top of one of those old fashioned roller coasters and the grip of the person holding on to the worn leather strap is loosening.  

It is thrilling, but it also makes me want to hurl.  

Luckily I have an amazing roller coaster maintenance staff in the form of our network of friends and family in Victoria.  With them at my side, I am pretty confident that everything will ultimately turn out OK.      

So France, although it wasn’t what you’d really call a “vacation”, was definitely a much-needed change of scenery before what is surely going to be an eventful year.  And luckily we arrive in Victoria on Monday evening and our dear friends Martial and Isabelle and their boys Arthur and Gabin from Burgundy arrive in BC on Friday evening to spend the month of August with us.  That is one less tearful good-bye we will have to say, and a bit of France in Canada to enjoy for the next 30 days.  

De plus, during the past five weeks I have also stored up enough photos and material for at least a year’s worth of posts.  Stay tuned…my goal for this next year is to try and enjoy the ride.

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